My girlfriends and I have been doing dildo and vibrator play for years now. My girlfriends are very well versed in the art of masturbation and even though I am just starting out with my exploration of this world I can say that she knows what she's talking about. Dildo play is so universal and normal that every woman has had and experienced sexual play with a dildo at least once in their lives. It's a great way to ease into the world of masturbation because it's something we all know something about and most of us have played with a dildo at least once or twice. My favorite thing to use as a masturbation tool besides a vibrator is a vibrating sex toy because the intense feeling you get when you use one makes foreplay so much better and I masturbate everyday using one..